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1 00:01:16,149 --> 00:01:22,450 finally you're here we're dead well then 2 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:29,840 don't walk away from me don't just 3 00:01:26,420 --> 00:01:32,090 f***g target me we're late 4 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:34,340 target shoot we have an appointment is 5 00:01:32,090 --> 00:01:38,300 me there not here why why are you not 6 00:01:34,340 --> 00:01:40,789 here in the house what is going on who 7 00:01:38,300 --> 00:01:44,509 cares how late I ** why does it matter 8 00:01:40,789 --> 00:01:48,250 like I just I g***t other s***t to do I'm 9 00:01:44,509 --> 00:01:50,539 18 I can f***g do what I want now so 10 00:01:48,250 --> 00:01:52,100 so if you're 18 why don't you act like 11 00:01:50,539 --> 00:01:55,209 an adult you need an appointment you 12 00:01:52,100 --> 00:01:55,209 stick to the appointment 13 00:02:04,010 --> 00:02:19,910 I know it might help you but I don't 14 00:02:07,070 --> 00:02:21,470 think it's gonna help me why are you 15 00:02:19,910 --> 00:02:22,010 being so defiant look the way you're 16 00:02:21,470 --> 00:02:24,560 dressed 17 00:02:22,010 --> 00:02:27,260 what is this new you I didn't like it I 18 00:02:24,560 --> 00:02:29,060 don't like it one bit I can dress the 19 00:02:27,260 --> 00:02:34,280 way I want I don't care what you like 20 00:02:29,060 --> 00:02:36,950 anymore you live underneath my roof you 21 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:49,910 follow my rules do you hear me you're 22 00:02:36,950 --> 00:02:52,280 not even my real dad Bruce how dare you 23 00:02:49,910 --> 00:02:54,290 I know I know in the bottom of my heart 24 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:58,070 you don't need any of that 25 00:02:54,290 --> 00:03:00,740 yes I do I don't even f***g listen to 26 00:02:58,070 --> 00:03:09,620 you anymore there was only one person I 27 00:03:00,740 --> 00:03:12,410 listened to and she's f***g gone how 28 00:03:09,620 --> 00:03:16,310 dare you respect not only me but your 29 00:03:12,410 --> 00:03:18,050 mother touch me don't touch me look over 30 00:03:16,310 --> 00:03:21,610 to that point and we'll go to that point 31 00:03:18,050 --> 00:03:21,610 Mara I said I don't want to go anymore 32 00:03:26,110 --> 00:03:41,769 you're going to the f***g appointment 33 00:03:28,819 --> 00:03:41,769 get your a***s on me good good 34 00:04:28,530 --> 00:04:33,310 thank you both for coming in today I 35 00:04:31,210 --> 00:04:34,620 know this is a difficult time for both 36 00:04:33,310 --> 00:04:37,780 of you 37 00:04:34,620 --> 00:04:40,750 Laurie as you know I've been counseling 38 00:04:37,780 --> 00:04:44,140 worse since your mother's untimely 39 00:04:40,750 --> 00:04:46,360 passing and we both felt it was 40 00:04:44,140 --> 00:04:51,010 important that we bring you in on these 41 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:54,610 sessions I'm gonna give you both a 42 00:04:51,010 --> 00:04:58,720 chance to speak today but I would like 43 00:04:54,610 --> 00:05:00,970 to start with you Bruce I would love to 44 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:06,070 hear you to start by telling your 45 00:05:00,970 --> 00:05:07,270 daughter stepdaughter telling Bruce I'd 46 00:05:06,070 --> 00:05:10,840 like you to start by telling your 47 00:05:07,270 --> 00:05:12,100 stepdaughter about some of the emotions 48 00:05:10,840 --> 00:05:14,310 that you've been having since the 49 00:05:12,100 --> 00:05:14,310 funeral 50 00:05:34,819 --> 00:06:05,159 did you know do you even know do any 51 00:05:43,620 --> 00:06:17,090 idea what I have f***g a bat only lost 52 00:06:05,159 --> 00:06:21,750 my one I'm losing my daughter and now 53 00:06:17,090 --> 00:06:29,610 you decide to just push me away don't 54 00:06:21,750 --> 00:06:36,030 care about much tell you who you say I 55 00:06:29,610 --> 00:06:41,370 don't care I have always been there for 56 00:06:36,030 --> 00:06:46,320 you since you were this big I've held 57 00:06:41,370 --> 00:06:50,400 you in my arms and now you want to take 58 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:54,060 that away from me my only purpose left 59 00:06:50,400 --> 00:07:03,199 in life I have no family 60 00:06:54,060 --> 00:07:03,199 I have not date now nothing is left 61 00:07:08,290 --> 00:07:23,640 I remember when I thought that I was 62 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:27,010 your world do you remember the times 63 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:31,750 MacArthur Park those memories don't mean 64 00:07:27,010 --> 00:07:34,090 s***t to you calm down 65 00:07:31,750 --> 00:07:45,460 Lori I'm gonna give you a chance to 66 00:07:34,090 --> 00:07:47,590 speak but please finish don't mean 67 00:07:45,460 --> 00:07:52,540 anything to you you don't care about 68 00:07:47,590 --> 00:07:55,870 those f***g memories how could I not 69 00:07:52,540 --> 00:08:00,840 care who was it that taught you to ride 70 00:07:55,870 --> 00:08:00,840 your bicycle there I'm feeding the Ducks 71 00:08:00,870 --> 00:08:18,900 we go to the store buy bread and then go 72 00:08:04,930 --> 00:08:22,240 down to the pond and feed the ducks okay 73 00:08:18,900 --> 00:08:24,940 looking aggressive okay what would I 74 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:26,680 have to do a night I can't even open up 75 00:08:24,940 --> 00:08:35,050 my heart I don't put up my heart and 76 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:37,450 she's a slash to the f***r partner well 77 00:08:35,050 --> 00:08:38,290 he doesn't know how to show it what do 78 00:08:37,450 --> 00:08:40,270 you want from me 79 00:08:38,290 --> 00:08:56,950 how can I show you that I love you any 80 00:08:40,270 --> 00:08:59,410 more than I already do what feelings I 81 00:08:56,950 --> 00:09:02,650 didn't even want to f***g come here he 82 00:08:59,410 --> 00:09:09,840 dragged me here literally by my arm 83 00:09:02,650 --> 00:09:13,660 she's emotionless no I'm not I'm angry 84 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:14,380 I'm angry at you what have I done to 85 00:09:13,660 --> 00:09:18,040 deserve this 86 00:09:14,380 --> 00:09:21,939 I'm angry at myself and I'm angry at my 87 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:27,769 mother's f***g day Laurie 88 00:09:21,939 --> 00:09:30,379 why do you angry at yourself no I don't 89 00:09:27,769 --> 00:09:33,769 f***g explain that I'm angry I don't 90 00:09:30,379 --> 00:09:36,230 know how to show why I'm angry how much 91 00:09:33,769 --> 00:09:37,670 you'll agree why these emotions are 92 00:09:36,230 --> 00:09:41,720 coming out this is just me I'm just a 93 00:09:37,670 --> 00:09:46,189 funny angry person and I'm just mad and 94 00:09:41,720 --> 00:10:03,160 I just feel guilty why do you feel 95 00:09:46,189 --> 00:10:11,569 guilty I just feel guilty yeah there is 96 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:16,309 there is a reason I feel guilty now my 97 00:10:11,569 --> 00:10:20,959 mother is done because they always 98 00:10:16,309 --> 00:10:25,970 wanted her to be gone what I always 99 00:10:20,959 --> 00:10:33,559 wanted all of your attention and I had 100 00:10:25,970 --> 00:10:36,649 to share it with her so I always I 101 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:42,279 always put so much energy towards her 102 00:10:36,649 --> 00:10:42,279 being gone now she's gone 103 00:10:48,879 --> 00:10:54,220 yeah well I feel like it is 104 00:11:06,890 --> 00:11:19,110 have either of you heard of the Electra 105 00:11:09,570 --> 00:11:21,750 complex the Electra complex is a neo 106 00:11:19,110 --> 00:11:25,110 Freudian psychological theory about a 107 00:11:21,750 --> 00:11:27,110 girl's psychosexual competition with her 108 00:11:25,110 --> 00:11:35,100 mother for possession of the father 109 00:11:27,110 --> 00:11:39,200 virtue it's derived from the Greek myth 110 00:11:35,100 --> 00:11:44,070 of Electra basically during a female's 111 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:45,780 psychosexual development she first 112 00:11:44,070 --> 00:11:48,780 attaches to the mother it's usually 113 00:11:45,780 --> 00:11:50,100 because of the the amazing bond created 114 00:11:48,780 --> 00:11:55,190 through breastfeeding and the time spent 115 00:11:50,100 --> 00:11:59,070 in the womb but when she smothers that 116 00:11:55,190 --> 00:12:02,430 mother or father figure in this case has 117 00:11:59,070 --> 00:12:05,730 a different body to her own she begins 118 00:12:02,430 --> 00:12:09,510 to have resentment towards the mother 119 00:12:05,730 --> 00:12:12,150 and there is a subconscious desire to 120 00:12:09,510 --> 00:12:24,200 remove the mother so that she can have 121 00:12:12,150 --> 00:12:31,160 the father all to herself this is just 122 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:34,350 making me feel extremely uncomfortable 123 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:37,140 well what is it about it that's making 124 00:12:34,350 --> 00:12:45,200 you feel uncomfortable what you're 125 00:12:37,140 --> 00:12:45,200 telling me is that I want to f***k my dad 126 00:12:54,890 --> 00:12:59,130 my point exactly 127 00:12:56,750 --> 00:13:01,340 look at your reaction to female 128 00:12:59,130 --> 00:13:01,340 competition 129 00:13:02,420 --> 00:13:11,390 this is definitely a case of the Electra 130 00:13:04,940 --> 00:13:14,270 complex listen what I propose we do for 131 00:13:11,390 --> 00:13:18,080 the rest of this session is we do a 132 00:13:14,270 --> 00:13:19,670 little exercise Lori for you to resolve 133 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:20,620 some of your issues of resentment 134 00:13:19,670 --> 00:13:23,990 towards your mother 135 00:13:20,620 --> 00:13:28,730 you need to have empathy for...