Addicted.to.Sexting.2015 Movie Subtitles

1 00:00:17,852 --> 00:00:21,620 Some new words out there you probably need to hurry up and get hip to. 2 00:00:21,622 --> 00:00:24,356 - Okay. - Uh, sexting. 3 00:00:24,358 --> 00:00:26,492 Sexting is out there now. You familiar with that? 4 00:00:26,494 --> 00:00:29,028 Explain to those that may not know... 5 00:00:29,030 --> 00:00:30,496 ...what sexting is. 6 00:00:30,498 --> 00:00:32,998 Sexting is when you text s***y. 7 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:34,333 - You know what I'm saying? - Like what? 8 00:00:34,335 --> 00:00:35,367 Like, "Boy, what you g***t on?" 9 00:00:35,369 --> 00:00:37,569 "Ooh, I g***t on something, you know?" 10 00:00:38,806 --> 00:00:41,974 It's your favorite big booty, Alexis Texas, 11 00:00:41,976 --> 00:00:43,776 and I wanna sext with all of you. 12 00:00:43,778 --> 00:00:46,412 The reason I think people engage in sexting 13 00:00:46,414 --> 00:00:48,180 is the reason that people engage in 14 00:00:48,182 --> 00:00:50,582 all sorts of electronic communication behind the screen. 15 00:00:50,584 --> 00:00:52,584 There's immediacy to it that's great. 16 00:00:52,586 --> 00:00:54,720 It's like window shopping. All you do is kind of like, 17 00:00:54,722 --> 00:00:56,522 "Oh, I like that. I like that." You know. 18 00:00:56,524 --> 00:00:58,424 It's like, "Oh, I'm just gonna go ahead and try that on." 19 00:00:58,426 --> 00:01:02,294 It gets me through the day. It makes me feel good about myself. 20 00:01:02,296 --> 00:01:05,431 - It's a form of seduction. - Exactly! That's what I said. 21 00:01:05,433 --> 00:01:06,832 "I'm thinking of you. 22 00:01:06,834 --> 00:01:10,235 "I want you right now, but you're not here. 23 00:01:10,237 --> 00:01:11,570 "Can't wait till you get home." 24 00:01:11,572 --> 00:01:13,005 You know, it's not like, 25 00:01:13,007 --> 00:01:15,674 we met in an airplane, and now we're in the bathroom f***g. 26 00:01:15,676 --> 00:01:17,643 It's all about the build. 27 00:01:17,645 --> 00:01:21,046 There's a sense of safety. There's a glass screen in front of you, 28 00:01:21,048 --> 00:01:23,282 and you don't see the person at the other end. 29 00:01:23,284 --> 00:01:25,084 So what you see is a reflection of you. 30 00:01:25,086 --> 00:01:26,752 It's s***y. Who doesn't like 31 00:01:26,754 --> 00:01:30,489 hearing or seeing something sexual about somebody that they're interested in? 32 00:01:30,491 --> 00:01:32,925 The idea of lovers communicating 33 00:01:32,927 --> 00:01:36,195 secret little messages is as old as writing. 34 00:02:19,173 --> 00:02:22,741 Sexting, first of all, can be either verbal or visual. 35 00:02:22,743 --> 00:02:26,178 I kinda have a different feeling about both of them. 36 00:02:26,180 --> 00:02:28,013 From the verbal side, 37 00:02:28,015 --> 00:02:31,049 sometimes I think it's good for people to be able, behind a screen, 38 00:02:31,051 --> 00:02:33,919 to say things they might not be able to say to someone's face. 39 00:02:33,921 --> 00:02:36,388 Most of the sexting that's going on 40 00:02:36,390 --> 00:02:39,358 tends to be healthy, in my opinion. 41 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:43,395 I think a lot of people are doing it to keep their love lives active, 42 00:02:43,397 --> 00:02:45,664 and to let their partners know 43 00:02:45,666 --> 00:02:48,200 that they're interested and aroused by them. 44 00:02:48,202 --> 00:02:50,002 So I think, absolutely, it's healthy. 45 00:02:50,004 --> 00:02:52,771 Since I just moved from Virginia to here, 46 00:02:52,773 --> 00:02:54,039 I don't have the connection 47 00:02:54,041 --> 00:02:56,408 with the person that I was dealing with at the time. 48 00:02:56,410 --> 00:03:00,012 So we're constantly, always, sending little things back and forth 49 00:03:00,014 --> 00:03:02,314 to each other every day. 50 00:03:02,315 --> 00:03:04,615 I learned about sexting through my friends in high school. 51 00:03:04,618 --> 00:03:08,187 It was, like, not really an adrenaline rush, I guess. 52 00:03:08,189 --> 00:03:11,823 I mean, maybe a little bit, but more of like an approval, too. 53 00:03:11,825 --> 00:03:14,593 Like, I send a photo, and they send back, 54 00:03:14,595 --> 00:03:16,395 um, which means that they're interested. 55 00:03:16,397 --> 00:03:19,932 There's an anticipation aspect to it. 56 00:03:19,934 --> 00:03:21,833 The back and forth exchange 57 00:03:21,835 --> 00:03:24,002 instead of having everything so instantaneous. 58 00:03:24,004 --> 00:03:28,273 I think it builds arousal to have that anticipation. 59 00:03:28,275 --> 00:03:30,242 The idea that men are more visual 60 00:03:30,244 --> 00:03:32,578 and that women need to be stimulated through their mind, 61 00:03:32,580 --> 00:03:34,313 is completely a stereotype. 62 00:03:34,315 --> 00:03:37,182 Of course, there are women that prefer to be stimulated more emotionally, 63 00:03:37,184 --> 00:03:40,052 and there are men that prefer to see a s***y picture. 64 00:03:40,054 --> 00:03:42,888 But there's also the opposite situation as well. 65 00:03:42,890 --> 00:03:46,291 It's really a per person and preference based situation. 66 00:03:46,293 --> 00:03:50,629 I'm not really dating or doing anything, so it's necessary right now. 67 00:03:50,631 --> 00:03:52,764 'Cause I'd be so lonely without it. 68 00:03:52,766 --> 00:03:57,369 I haven't been out on a date, a real date, since 1984. 69 00:03:57,371 --> 00:03:59,371 Do you have any advice 70 00:03:59,373 --> 00:04:02,207 that you can offer me before I put myself out there? 71 00:04:02,209 --> 00:04:04,843 Sexting is out there now. You familiar with that? 72 00:04:04,845 --> 00:04:05,811 I've heard of it, yes. 73 00:04:05,813 --> 00:04:07,145 - You've heard of it? - Yes. 74 00:04:07,147 --> 00:04:10,015 You're gonna have to participate. 75 00:04:10,017 --> 00:04:14,152 What's interesting is they're not finding any profile of the "sexter." 76 00:04:14,154 --> 00:04:17,089 It's not particularly one kind of person. 77 00:04:17,091 --> 00:04:19,391 It seems to cut across many ages. 78 00:04:19,393 --> 00:04:21,326 It cuts across ethnic backgrounds. 79 00:04:21,328 --> 00:04:23,962 It cuts across everything. 80 00:04:23,963 --> 00:04:26,597 It's really an activity that I think is going to start to increase more and more 81 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,836 as people feel more of a connection through their devices 82 00:04:30,838 --> 00:04:32,237 to the rest of their world. 83 00:04:32,239 --> 00:04:35,140 There's something really fun and s***y 84 00:04:35,142 --> 00:04:37,209 bringing sexting into a relationship, 85 00:04:37,211 --> 00:04:40,245 and teasing the person while they're not allowed to get to you. 86 00:04:40,247 --> 00:04:42,614 If they're stuck at work, or something like that. 87 00:04:42,616 --> 00:04:46,084 And then you waiting in an outfit, you know, when they come home. 88 00:04:46,086 --> 00:04:49,821 It's... That's a really nice way to spark up a relationship. 89 00:04:49,823 --> 00:04:53,358 The most appealing thing about sexting is maybe, um... 90 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:55,794 It's kind of like going to Costco and getting a sample. 91 00:04:55,796 --> 00:04:59,231 You know, I don't wanna buy the entire Hungry-Man meal, 92 00:04:59,233 --> 00:05:03,101 but if I can get a little taste of the macaroni, a little taste of the turkey, 93 00:05:03,103 --> 00:05:04,803 then, okay, I think I like this. 94 00:05:04,805 --> 00:05:07,339 We both know it's going to end up here. 95 00:05:07,341 --> 00:05:09,841 We're going to end up on bed, doing it. G***t it. 96 00:05:09,843 --> 00:05:13,045 What mood will we be in when we get there? 97 00:05:13,047 --> 00:05:16,882 Is it pursuit and capture? Are we gonna be two goofy young kids? 98 00:05:16,884 --> 00:05:19,985 Are we two sophisticated people of the world? 99 00:05:19,987 --> 00:05:22,888 ** I gonna be a World War II spy, you're gonna be an officer? 100 00:05:22,890 --> 00:05:26,725 In what way are we gonna go where we're gonna go? 101 00:05:26,727 --> 00:05:28,694 When I open the door, it's like, "Whoa! 102 00:05:28,696 --> 00:05:32,798 "This amazing person who showed up at my doorstep is gonna take me away now!" 103 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,233 And you get to walk in and be the guy who takes her away now 104 00:05:35,235 --> 00:05:40,405 because all that boring... The important yet dull stuff has been handled. 105 00:05:40,407 --> 00:05:44,476 If you're a really shy person but you wanna learn how to dirty talk in bed, 106 00:05:44,478 --> 00:05:46,044 start doing it over a text. 107 00:05:46,046 --> 00:05:47,946 You know, just little things like that. 108 00:05:47,948 --> 00:05:50,716 If you're not so confident in the bedroom, 109 00:05:50,718 --> 00:05:53,419 you wanna be a little more confident, 110 00:05:53,420 --> 00:05:56,121 doing your own little personal selfie photoshoots is a great way to do that, you know? 111 00:05:56,123 --> 00:06:02,494 See, this is an art, and this is a relationship that 112 00:06:02,496 --> 00:06:08,367 men and women have had since the beginning of mobile devices. 113 00:06:08,369 --> 00:06:10,286 Okay? 114 00:06:10,287 --> 00:06:12,204 I don't quite know when I learned about sexting. 115 00:06:12,206 --> 00:06:13,405 Or when it began. 116 00:06:13,407 --> 00:06:16,308 Shoot, when did cellphones start? 117 00:06:16,310 --> 00:06:19,778...